SaturnsLady: A Guide to Being Happy With Yourself

A Guide to Being Happy With Yourself

By Kevin Sinclair

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Although most of us would much rather feel happy, from time to time we all get a little down in the dumps and this is quite normal in this day and age. However, we need to be aware that out attitudes can affect how we feel and if we adopt a positive mind set we are sure to be back on the road to happiness sooner rather than later.

We can be as happy as we want to by simply counting our blessings. When we take into consideration the fact that there are many children in hospitals suffering with all manner of debilitating illnesses who display such wonderful attitudes to life, how bad can what we have on our minds really be? There is always a way to overcome our concerns if a positive attitude is taken.

You should be thankful for all the good things in your life. When you wake up in the mornings think about all the people who love and appreciate you and be grateful that they feature in your life too.

Quite often there may be a particular object which makes you think about good times. For example, the beautiful flower arrangement reminding you that someone cares. Take a long look at the flowers each morning and the day will take on a special meaning. An item such as this should be placed where you can see it, as soon as you wake up and this will put you in the right mood for the rest of the day.

Set yourself a plan for the day and stick to it. It does not matter if it's a business plan or simply the household chores you are going to carry out - having a plan makes your time important and more valued. Of course, keeping yourself busy gets rids of the blues and also ensures you accomplish a lot as well. You will have a feel of being worthwhile and your life will have a style and purpose which will be noticed and appreciated by those close to you.

When you feel like things are getting on top of you and that you are spiraling downwards, take a step back and do all you can to raise your spirits. Your positive attitude will eliminate your negative thoughts and give you the motivation you need to get through the day, making sure you start the following day by being thankful for all the good things in your life.