Wednesday, July 20, 2011

The Ten Most Common Signs Deceased Loved Ones Give to Let Us Know They Are Around

The Ten Most Common Signs Deceased Loved Ones Give

to Let Us Know They Are Around

After our loved ones cross over, they are very anxious to let us know they are okay and are aware of what is going on in our lives. If we are not able to feel them around us, they will often give us signs that we cannot ignore. The person who is given the sign usually knows he or she is receiving a message from the other side. I always tell my clients that they do not have to look for signs – the signs will come to them.

The signs our loved ones give us most often are:

They come through as an animal. Our loved ones are able to use their energy to go inside of an animal, such as a butterfly, ladybug, bird, or dragonfly – for a brief period of time. The animal does something it usually would not do, such as land on us, peck at our window, scream at us, etc.

They place common objects such as feathers, coins, or rocks in our path. Our loved ones like to place things over and over again in our path that were significant to them. I have had clients come to me who have had jars filled with feathers, coins, and objects they have found in the most unusual places.

They give off fragrances. We can often tell our deceased loved ones are around us when we smell their perfume, flowers, cigar or cigarette smoke, or any other familiar smell they had. There is usually no logical explanation of why the smell is there.

They make songs come on at the perfect time. We know they are around when their favorite songs come on at the right time with the exact words we need to hear. Often the same song is played in many different places.

They come to us in dreams. One of the easiest ways for them to come through to us is in our dreams. All we need to do is to ask them to come, and they will. However, we should ask them to wake us up after they come, or else we will not remember the dream. A dream that is a true visitation will be very peaceful and we will know it is truly our loved one. We will remember this type of dream in detail many years later. (On the other hand, a subconscious dream may be frightening or feel bad. This type of dream is not your loved one.)

They show us the same numbers over and over. They loved to give us numbers that are relevant to them or you, such as birth dates, anniversaries – or repeating numbers, such as 1111, 2222, 3333, etc. These numbers may appear on clocks, billboards, or any other familiar place.

They allow us to feel peaceful for no reason. When our loved ones are in the room, they usually make us feel so loved and at peace. It usually happens at the most unsuspecting time, so there is no logical explanation for our sudden bliss.

They place thoughts in our head. Because they in spirit form, our loved ones don’t have an audible voice. Therefore, they give us messages telepathically. Pay attention to thoughts that just “pop” into your head. We can tell the difference between our thoughts and theirs by backtracking our thoughts. If you can find the thought that triggered the thought of your loved one, it is probably your thought. If something your loved one would say just pops in your head for no reason, it is probably him or her speaking directly to you!

They love to play with electricity. They turn electricity on and off. They like to flicker lights, turn the television and radio on and off, and make appliances beep for no apparent reason.

They make buzzing noises in our ears. Because our loved ones speak to us on a different, higher frequency, we may hear ringing in our ears when they are trying to get our attention. This is a sign telling you to listen to what they are saying.

The list can go on and on, but these are the most common ways they let us know they are around. If you haven’t received any of these signs, simply ask your loved ones to come to you to let you know they are okay. Tell them to come to you in a dream and to wake you up after the dream. The more you are aware of the messages they are giving you, the more they will continue to allow you to know they are present. Be patient and persistent, and I promise that they will give you the signs you have always wanted. They really are okay and want you to be too!

Angel blessings to you!

Karen Noe


Friday, July 15, 2011

Never Be Jealous Again

Never Be Jealous Again

by Jane Powell

"Jealousy is an emotion we can live without."

When you are jealous of someone else,

your positive attitude suffers.

When tempted to compare yourself

to a someone who is more beautiful

or successful than most, you have a choice.

You can choose to admire her/his fine attributes

or let the green-eyed monster have its way.

If you choose jealousy, you will become negative,

learn to doubt yourself and cultivate

both fear and anger.

But, when you choose admiration, you nurture

an inner awe and wonder, which is too often

lost as children grow into adults.

Turn jealousy into admiration.

Stop comparing yourself

to those with wonderful qualities.

Replace negative feelings

with appreciation and admiration,

and appreciation of your own great qualities

will grow!


Let Go and Go With the Flow

Let Go and Go With the Flow

By: Marie Barnes

Are you working your arse off and getting nowhere fast? If so, you are not alone.

Most of us are living our lives the wrong way round. We work, work, work, until we either burn ourselves out or die. I know that is a harsh thing to say, but it's true.

If you are one of the lucky few who is living the life of your choosing, then I want you to come forward and share your success with all of us. In the meantime, for the rest of us there is hope.

I particularly like Abraham-Hicks analogy of why we struggle so much in our daily lives. They describe life as a very fast flowing river and the more desires you have throughout your life the faster the river flows. There's nothing wrong with that, we are supposed to have desires right? The problem is that most of us put our boats in the river and paddle up stream against the current(If you have ever been in a fast flowing river then you will know that we are no match for the strong current). The river is much more powerful than we are.

So why would anyone deliberately paddle up stream when they know that they will get nowhere and burn them selves out in the process of trying. And what is even worse are those of us who never stop trying because they don't realise that they are paddling the wrong way.

So, there's this fast flowing river and the current carries everything in it down stream, except spawning salmon and us. The salmon are designed to fight against the current, that is what they are supposed to do, but we are not designed to fight against the current, that is not what we are supposed to do.

Why then are we putting our boats in the river and paddling like mad against the current when it's against nature? If we were to think of the river as life it's self , would it not make sense to drop our oars, turn our boat around and float down stream.

Imagine floating down stream at an incredibly fast pace and not paddling like mad. At least you would be moving in a direction. It may not be the direction you feel comfortable with because all your senses are telling you what you want is up stream and you have to paddle like mad to get there. In other words my mortgage and bills are up stream and I have to paddle like mad to find a way to pay them or else I'll loose everything.

But what if your senses are wrong? What if all you want is down stream and you have been paddling in the wrong direction for years. Now I don't know about you, but I don't want to be one of those who will never know that I am paddling in the wrong direction.

We are not stupid, most of us figure out that something is wrong. We know that we are working our buts off and getting nowhere. The problem is that we have lost our trust. If I was to say to you " let go of what ever it is you are trying to achieve and go with the flow, because everything you want is down stream and you don't have to work as hard as you do to get to where you want to go. All your opportunities are waiting for you down stream. Just let go of your oars and go with the flow". You wouldn't believe me or even worse, you do believe me but you are too frightened of loosing everything you own right now.

There is another example I like from Abraham-Hicks. They say that you could put 100% action into something but if it is the wrong action then it means absolutely zilch, you still get nowhere. That's why you see other people living the so called dream and not nearly working as hard as you, because they take the right action and therefore they are in harmony and life goes smoothly for them.

So, you have two choices. You can either carry on doing what you are doing(paddling up stream) and getting nowhere or you can make a decision today and decide to trust in the universe by dropping your oars, turn your boat around, face downstream(go with the flow) and go get those opportunities that are waiting for you.

Trust that life can and will work out for you when you stop fighting against it.

Let Go and Go With The Flow